Sunday, May 6, 2012

Reminiscing

Working with the kids at the Boys and Girls Town has been a rewarding experience.  It has been amazing to see how the kids grow as people over the course of a year, and how our presence as well as other volunteers affects them in a positive manner.  Not only was this experience rewarding for me to see how the kids changed, but it was also a beneficial experience for me.  I learned how to work well with children and with other volunteers.  As the community contact, I also learned how to contact the organization and coordinate events, which will be a helpful skill in the future.  The most rewarding part of this year was seeing how I changed.  At the beginning of the year I was quite shy and reserved when it came to meeting new people.  However, that quickly changed over the course of the fall semester because of how friendly the people were that I met; meeting people that were so welcoming helped me to be more confident in similar situations in the future.  I am very glad that I was able to be a part of such a meaningful service project here in the community.






Will

Learning about Boys and Girls Town

Over the course of the school year, I have grown to learn many things about the community of Springfield and the surrounding area through our group service project at the Boy's and Girls Town. As a college student, I was not often exposed to the issues that exist within the community until I was given a first hand experience at the Boy's and Girls Town.  The Boy's and Girls Town is a program that is built to help children through difficult situations in their home lives and in some situations with foster care children.  The most important thing that I learned is that these kids are no different than any other children.  They have endured things that I have never had to experience, but in the end, they are still kids who want to act and play like kids should.  I realized that the best thing for the children that I could do to help was to be a positive role model, and just to give them attention.  It was amazing to see how our Summit group affected the children and left a positive lasting impression.  

Will

Saturday, May 5, 2012

Final Thoughts

Well, the end of the year is here at last. After 9 months of servicing the community of Springfield and gaining valuable experience as a both a leader and a member of a team, I can safely say that I have come away from it all with a new outlook on multiple things.  I have a new found respect for the boys in Jones cottage at Boys and Girls Town, I have greater confidence in my leadership abilities, and I have improved my problem solving skills by completing a project with a team that I had to live with (which was definitely a challenge, at times).  I would like to think that apart from these successes, our group has been a positive influence on those boys that may or may not have had many of such influences in their lives.  Whether the time spent with these young men was life-changing or not, the laughs that we shared will always stand as proof of success in my memories.

Ryan

Final Blog

As this Leadership course comes to an end, I try to remember what exactly I expected and felt at the very beginning. I was anxious to meet the boys who I thought would constantly display evidence of their troubled pasts. They have a long way to go and it is truly incredible to see people take care of them day after day as their jobs, but I was pleasantly surprised to see that they were as rambunctious and annoying as other kids who have been lucky enough to have a safe growing environment. I learned as a leader how important it is to be on the same page when two different groups are trying to communicate with one another. We had a couple of transparency issues along the way, in which the intended message was not the same as the received message. I will strive for more diligence in my communication skills, for the few errors we made could have been avoided or easily corrected had we been a little more 'on the ball.' The importance of speaking your mind was also highlighted during the course of the year. It is difficult to live with the people that you are having a project with...conflict will always arise. If however, a healthy dialogue setup is created where we can speak to each other clearly and directly, without being rude or raising any tone...then there is no reason to shy away from conflict but use it as a medium during the few times a conflict arises, to be more in sync with one another. I enjoyed this project very much and I do not believe I have played with the kids from Boys and Girls Town for the last time. 


Pedro

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

How I Changed

We really enjoyed working with Boys and Girls Town this past year. When we started this project our primary goal was to create relationships with these kids and let them know that we wanted to be a part of their lives. I think that our group accomplished. We always enjoyed getting to go over there and hangout with them, often just doing whatever they wanted to do, but all the while sharing experiences which helped our relationship develop. We also got to take the kids to several different events that they wouldn't normally get to go to and watching them having a good time was always rewarding for us. Also, I kept realizing that each time we were with them we were reminded as to how fortunate and blessed each of us has been and that it is our responsibility to help fill a void that other people have created in the lives of these kids. I think this realization helped to change me a person by not only helping me recognize but also truly appreciate the things that I have in my life. It also helped me to grow and understand the many different ways that I can help others and make a positive difference in my community. Another thing I realized was how important community service is to a community. People need to take a stronger initiative and go out to the places around them because there is so much that the we can offer to these non-profit organizations. I hope that in the future I will get an opportunity to continue my community service in Springfield because it has been one of the most enriching and rewarding experiences I've had during my college career.